Help with tribute to Jay Goslin (Sipple)

It is with a heavy heart that I write this today so forgive me if it lacks eloquence as it is something that has been terribly difficult to watch the kids go through- let alone acknowledge outloud, For I know it will break down a wall that is holding back a tidal wave of grief for this family...

Jay Ronald Goslin (Sipple) is on life support and after many days and many prayers it has been determined that he will not survive.

On Sunday October 17, 2021 Jay went into the Mayo Clinic hospital in Rochester, MN. He was feeling unwell and it proved to be more than he could physically bear, they admitted him to get to the bottom of it, however on the following Tuesday, the 19th, he suffered a cardiac arrest and never regained consciousness.

At only 38 years old and leaving behind three beautiful amazing children; Kadin and Kyler Sipple, age 18 and Taylor Sipple age 16, along with his mother, sisters and a brother. It was a devastating blow. These kids are some of my favorite people in the world. Their mother, my best friend, is struggling to find ways to financially support the inevitable...despite having been divorced for years - they remained friends and he was involved with his children the best he knew how. The kids themselves, all working and in school, have missed many days at both, and make a daily 180 mile round trip drive from Kiester to Rochester to sit bedside to their father and hope for the best - however that has had a detrimental financial impact on them.

I don't think anyone would disagree when I say Jay was a character, nor could they disagree that he lived life to the fullest and on his terms, I know in my heart of hearts that the last thing he wants is for his children to be distressed about his final disposition on top of trying to process the loss they are facing. It is with the deepest sincerest hope that as a community we can pull together to ease the burden for the cost of his cremation and allow for these kids to celebrate his life with friends and family. Please contribute, even if you feel it is an insignificant amount. It is not. They have time lost at work, fuel and transportation costs, lodging and meals and then they will be facing the cost of cremation, urns and a memorial. Help me ease this burden and keep these kids in your hearts and prayers. Thank you.