On September 17th, Dr. Zander, Tammy's oncologist for the past 16 years told Tam that he was discontinuing chemo because it was not working. He said she could not keep working and asked if she'd thought of hospice.  The best case would be 12 months. It was the gut punch we have been blessed to avoid so many times. Now the task is to make the next 12 months stress-free for Tam and help with her fiances so she can focus on herself, family, friends and animals. Please give if you can.