Support Brandi’s Tubal Reversal Surgery

Hello, my name is Brandi. I am 31 years old and my husband and I have been married almost 2 years.

Our story began after each of us spent the majority of our lives being used and abused by our spouses and experiencing a whirlwind of childhood trauma. Life was hard for both of us. We were both at a very low point in life, ready to give up and end the suffering, tired of living in a harsh and cruel world alone. Tired of being messed over by people we loved and cared for.

Before we met we both sat down and prayed for guidance to find our true paths. We both felt like there was someone waiting to be found and that if we just held on a little longer and put the effort in that there was hope for a better future. We both took steps to find that person relying on Spirit to guide us. We found each other by what felt like chance and divine guidance.

The day we met we both knew that we had found someone special. We had an instant connection and felt as though we’d known each other all our lives. 3 weeks on the day later we got married. We have never been happier or felt more supported and loved. About a 6 months in to our marriage we both had a dream of a little boy who we both recognized as our son. My daughters have both have dreams about a little brother and we have all had many dreams since were he comes to visit us.

From the moment I woke from the first dream I have missed this little boy with such a fierceness and I know in my heart this sweet little boy is just waiting to join our family. We have talked about it as a family and everyone agrees we should do everything in our power, meet God half way and try to bring this life into our family. Thus another journey begins.

In 2014 I had a brain aneurysm and a stroke while pregnant with my youngest daughter. I chose to let a family member adopt her and planned to have my tubes tied at the time of the C section delivery because I was afraid to have more children. I was afraid of how my daughter would feel knowing that I gave her up and then kept another. I worried it would hurt her in some way if I were to have another child. I went through with the procedure and until I had the dream about this little boy I felt at peace with my decision.

Now in order to give this life a chance at being conceived I have to undergo a tubal ligation reversal surgery. While

I still worry that this decision could have an emotional impact on not only my youngest daughter but also her mother for reasons that are personal to them I feel very strongly that I need to believe that it will be okay and I shouldn’t let those fears get in the way of something we feel called by Spirit to do.

We have done a ton of research and the cost of the surgery is going to be around $15,000.00. We have started saving for it but I quickly realized that at 31 years old by the time we save up enough for the surgery it may be too late to try. So it is with much hope and prayer that I started this go fund me account and ask anyone that is willing or feels called to help to please come on this journey with us and help us reach our goal to get this surgery paid for. My goal is to get the surgery before I turn 33 so I have time to let my body heal and prepare to try before I turn 35. This is something that feels both terrifying to me and important to everyone in my family.

Thank you for taking time to hear our story and to anyone who supports us in making our goal in any way no matter how big or small.

If the goal is not met in time any donation that has been collected will be offered back to those who we know donated it and any anonymous donations will be payed forward to help make someone else’s dreams possible.

Many blessings to all who find this.

With unconditional love and gratitude,

The Harris Family