Hello my friends. As you know. My name is tami. I have been married for 13 years. I have followed my husband dan around many states over those 13 years. I have given up jobs. Friends. family and my own careers. to be there as a wife and support his dreams. As this was happening. I was slowly being suffocated. Taken from friends. Taken from my own choices. All in the so I thought support of a wife for a husband. During this time. I never once was allowed to have access to the bank. Bills. Anything. Nothing in my name. Always in his. I've been emotional and economical abused. I ended up having nothing to my name. No rights. No belonging. Nothing. Always hearing things are my fault. Always tried to get things going for me so I had a way out and with every situation I tried he would find a way to pull it from under me. Well. The time has come. He came home during the weekend. And decided to pack his stuff up and just moved out. I am stuck in a town I never wanted to be. Stuck in a rental that is up to him to pay. Which he hasn't therfore I am going to be on the streets. I am trying to figure out what I can do. Many people say fight him.. go to court.. I can't. I don't have access to the money. I am stranded and abandoned. I have given 13 years to this man. Have always made his home a home. He always says it's my fault. That I've cheated. That I've done this and that. Far from the truth. He has ran my name and my self esteem down to nothing. Then decides to just abandon me. While I'm in a wheelchair due to surgery. Tells me I will accept what he gives. Then 10 hours later says he won't even help with anything and I'm on the street. Tells me I have no options other then what "HE" decides to do and I'm supposed to just take it. I need help my friends. I am trying to leave this south dakota state. He has left me in a town where there is nothing here for me. I need help. I need help with expenses to be able to get a uhaul and get my stuff and get out of here. I need help with expenses to pay for a month to month hotel so I can get a job and then be able to get my own apartment. I need to get out of this very bad situation. I am scared. Im scared for myself and my belongings. Please Help me Get to the freedom I deserve. I plan on leaving south dakota. Move to California near a friend. Get into a month to month hotel situation since I don't have a job and can't sign a lease. I want to be there for around 3 moths thinking that will be enof time to get a job and get the documents and proof I need to be able to get into my own space. Im beging you all for your love and understanding. And to please help with anything you can. I am abused. And am so tired of being nothing in this world that he has made. I deserve happiness. I deserve to be the best I can be and I need your help to get there. Thankyou.