My name is Sandra, and I have been surviving stalking, harassment, doxing, and overall coercive control since August 2025. The abuse I have survived is the same trauma that survivors of "domestic abuse" experience, but there is a giant hole in the system for single women, which renders me exempt from "domestic abuse" laws and, despite my numerous police reports, no one is holding my abusers accountable.

My abusers are my landlords, and they have recruited my next-door neighbors as well as their associates to gang-stalk me. I also have evidence that points to the landlords and/or neighbors having connections with the local police department, which is just another reason why law enforcement is of no help.

Over the holidays (between Christmas and New Year's), I had no choice but to hunker down in my home to avoid my abusers, which put me behind on income. Furthermore, these events have severely triggered my diagnosed PTSD symptoms, which left me scrambling to try and find advocates, without the capacity to actually use my brain due to my central nervous system keeping me in "fight, flight, or freeze." Without direction, and only anxiety to fuel me, I ended up losing $1,000 to an attorney and a private investigator who took advantage of my vulnerability and stole my money without providing me with the services I paid for.

Since breaking into my home, intentionally letting my dogs out of my private yard, physically and electronically stalking me, review bombing my business, and harassing myself and my clients didn't cause me to vacate my home, the landlords are now attempting to unlawfully evict me over the business that I run out of my home, which they have been fully aware of since I toured the home back in October 2023, and I have proof.

The good news is that I found a tenant attorney who says I definitely have the evidence to stand up for my right. Bonus points to this attorney for understanding PTSD and being patient with my disability; he is a very kind man.

However, I need some financial abundance in order to fight for my rights. Firstly, I need to make sure to pay February's rent as non-payment will give them more leverage to evict me, and I am $1,000 short as of today, 2/3/2026. Then I need to come up with the funds to retain this attorney. So far, I have just paid for consultations totaling $315, but will need to come up with an additional $2,100 advance fee/retainer.

Some additional information: in February 2025, I paid off my work van. In April 2025, someone ran a stop sign and totaled this recently paid-off van. By May, I replaced my totaled van with a similar one that I purchased from a private individual who turned back the miles on the dash. I purchased a van that showed 33k miles on the dash, but, after my trusted mechanics inspected it, they assured me that there is no way that it has less than 200k miles on it. So, now I do not even have a vehicle of my own. I am grateful that I am driving a friend's truck for now, but I really need a vehicle of my own, as soon as possible. I am terrified of being homeless without a vehicle.

Then, in June 2025, my mother passed away unexpectedly at only 74 years old. I asked family to help me, but they also took advantage of me instead.

I can assure you that I have done nothing to deserve any of this abuse, and I have lost so many long-term friends who attempted to victim-blame me for the abuse I am surviving. I have always been conscious of victim blaming and the damage it does to survivors, but it is a whole different level of consciousness when it happens to yourself. I feel so alone and so scared. I just want to survive this mess so I might have the opportunity in the future to advocate for other single women or other oppressed individuals who have been neglected by the system. As girls growing up, society teaches us that we are to be protected, but as women, we find that reality is the opposite; we are just oppressed and controlled. My story is just a microcosm of what is occurring around the globe today.

Thank you for reading my story and if you are able to share financial abundance, thank you for that too. ❤️