Roxanne's story.

Hi, my name is Roxanne, and sharing this story takes more courage than I ever thought I had.

For over 20 years, I was trapped in an abusive marriage. During that time, I was also part of a high-control religious group that isolated me, discouraged outside help, and taught me to endure suffering in silence. I truly believed I had no way out.

I am the mother of seven children, two special needs children. They, too, were harmed by the abuse we lived through. As a parent, carrying the weight of not being able to protect your children sooner is a pain that never leaves you. Leaving wasn’t just about saving myself, it was about breaking a cycle so my children could have a different future.

When I finally found the strength to leave and file for divorce, I believed the worst was behind us. Instead, the legal process has stretched on for three years, draining every emotional and financial resource I have. Because I ran out of money, through my ex dissipating all of our marital assets, my attorney withdrew from my case. The court is now requiring me to represent myself pro se, against the person who abused me.

I have reached out to every local legal aid organization I could find. None are willing to help. I am being asked to navigate a complex and adversarial legal system completely alone.

As a result of years of abuse and control, I live with PTSD and major depression. Court deadlines, filings, and hearings trigger intense anxiety and fear. Some days, simply getting out of bed feels overwhelming. Representing myself is not just difficult, it feels impossible.

I am asking for help to raise funds to hire an attorney who can stand with me, protect my rights, and help me finally complete this divorce. Every dollar raised will go directly toward legal fees and court-related expenses.

Asking for help is incredibly hard for me. I was taught for years to stay silent, to endure, and to never reach out. But I am asking now for myself and for my children, because we deserve safety, stability, and the chance to heal.

If you are able to donate, share this fundraiser, or keep us in your thoughts and prayers, please know it means more than words can express. Your support would give me hope at a time when I need it most.

Thank you for seeing us. Thank you for believing us. And thank you for helping us move one step closer to freedom.

With deep gratitude,

Roxanne