
Help romanian Transwoman get back on her feet
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Hello. Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I don’t even know where to begin, but I guess letting it all out is the only way.
At the end of July I got informed that my contract with the previous company would end, so I had to pack my things and look for a place where I can stay and find a new job. Thankfully, some friends of mine were kind enough to offer me a place to sleep. I also got a job offer, which I accepted and will start work soon.
Soon is also, unfortunately, the deadline of my stay in the place my friends offered. Due to petty arguments and miscommunication, I recently got accused of stealing from one of the people in the house, which led to a big fight that resulted in the person getting really aggressive and dragging me by my feet from the couch and pushing me towards the door, demanding I leave in the next 10 minutes. I think it is quite fair to say I am trapped in a very toxic, childish and petty environment, which led to me forgetting about myself and letting people step over my identity, “allowing” them to misgender me because I am in a position where I cannot say much.
Thankfully the other people in the house calmed them down, and gave me a deadline of 5 days to leave the house, because I allegedly am making them uncomfortable.
Now, all this stress (contract ending, not having a 2nd plan, sleeping on the floor at people’s houses, having no money or food, the arguments and accusations, etc.) is making me relive my childhood trauma.
The stress, the bad diet, the sleeping on the floor resulted in me having a kidney stone attack.
On the 16th of August I was rushed to the hospital with a 3mm kidney stone stuck in my urethra. I wish none of you experience the pain I experienced that night. As you can imagine, tests have been done and:
There are multiple kidney stones present in my body, there was blood found in my pee and thankfully, after 6 hours of crucial pain, the kidney stone passed. As you can imagine, the kidney stones still present in my body have to be either removed or I have to undergo urethra expansion treatment. Two angels were kind enough to pay for the medical bill. But of course, I have to pay them back.
So, all I am asking you, is for a little help. Share, donate if you can, help me get back on my feet and enjoy life again. I need financial help with affording at least a pension, a place, so I can work and get paid. I need help with the medical bills and treatment, I need help with affording food and water.
I need help.
Thank you.
Organizer

Neagu Alexandru
Organizer
Lisbon, 11