Help Reunite a Father with His Baby Boy

First off I wanna say I don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me or compelled to help. I understand that my son if fully my responsibility. I am very stubborn and prideful and hate asking for help. Even if you can’t help please share this for me! All proceeds are going straight to a lawyer that a program put me in touch with. He really listened to me and wants to fight this all the way through.

As a lot of you probably know by now my son was born October 11th 2024. The last week of the pregnancy his mom decided on giving him up for adoption. I refused to sign the paperwork. The adoption lawyer then told the mother not to speak to me. The C section got rescheduled the C section and don’t put me on the paperwork so it would be harder to fight the adoption. DCS set me up to see my son the next day after he was left at the hospital and withdrawing obviously not due to me. The other parties filed a complaint which now DCS can’t give me any information either. They did say that since he was born withdrawing that they would like to be involved. They only can intervene if I can stop the adoption. They commended me on fighting for him and told me I will have to jump through many hoops and programs until they’re certain I can have him fully on my own. Which I’m completely fine with. This was only the start of the corruption from the adoption agency.

I had a lawyer help me file paternity and putative. I had a court date set up in Porter County and the adoption lawyer had it transferred to a court that she has had business as well as personal ties to for years. Not only will this bring an unfair judgement in their favor. She also had the case sealed and didn’t list me on the case so I can’t get any information like the court date to even show up and contest which defaults to my child being taken away. Which guarantees her a paycheck.

Not only has she known for months as well as DCS that I am the father. She still is fighting for my right to establish paternity and rush the process behind the father’s back. I wasn’t even aware that an adoption hearing was set. When I found out my paternity court got transferred is when I learned there was an adoption hearing which they have been hiding from me. They also purposely listed an address that was not mine when they had all my contact information on the paternity papers that were filed and also given to them.

I had to post all over Facebook to even get them to send me something. Of course the paperwork didn’t have a court date or time on it yet again. Since the case is sealed and I’m fighting for him I now have to get a lawyer to even have a chance. I have filed everything I could on my behalf.

After the losing my Mom and brother the same week in 2019. I was in a dark and lonely place for years. Nobody knew how to help me but everyone saw and were very aware of how lost and depressed I was. My son has brought light back into my world and a purpose to live for.

I have been doing anything I could selling my collection of skate, finding anyway to earn extra money. As you know we all have bills and this is gonna cost me thousands and thousands of dollars over this period of time. I’ll spend every last dollar. To the agency he is a paycheck. To me he is my world and my purpose to live on. I am well aware that he deserves the best and I can only give him that by being my best.

I need to hurry and start the process with an attorney. I’m asking for help to get it started. I will be paying every last cent of this myself throughout the long grueling process fighting this agency from stealing a child from his father. If people can make mistakes and fight to get their kids back. I should have a chance to have my son and him to has his biological father in his life.

I genuinely appreciate all the support I have received from hundreds of people. Thousands of comments. Calls to the agency and reviews. The adoption agency threatened me with legal action for using freedom of speech asking for help and exploiting their shady and unethical so called law they practice. I will fight for my son until the day I die.