Support Chasity Whos Battling Stage 3 Colon Cancer

Peace & Harmony world! My dearest sister in love, Chasity, has been diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer. This is devastating news to our family and she needs some serious financial support as she fights to stay alive through chemo and radiation treatments. She was diagnosed on May 3rd, 2023 and it’s has been a VERY rough ride for her with trying to cover rent, hospital bills, and her children’s needs! Please donate in support of funding her upcoming surgery to remove the tumor and please pass this on to anyone you know who can support!

Chasity is the mom of two kids, my niece and nephew Hayla and Cavell whom she takes care of and this fundraiser will surely help them have the best Christmas possible despite what they are having to go through. Know that yiur beloved contribution will be a phenomenal to support to her family, especially her two kids.

Below are letters from her children, mom, sister and the father of her children, Charles. Please read them and know that any amount is really helpful.

A letter from Hayla, her daughter:

Once I found out my mom had cancer I was scared and sad. I cried a lot. Seeing my mom in pain hurt me because she always has a smile on her face and we would always have fun. We still do even though she has cancer. Know that it is all almost over, I'm happy but still worried for when she has to do surgery. But I know she can fight through it because she is strong!

Chasity’s son, Cavell:

Once I found out that my mom had cancer I was scared that she was going to die but from these past few months she has been doing her best and I wonder how the surgery is going to go.

Chasity’s Mother:

Chasity always smiles! When she was diagnosed My heart didn’t know how to take it. I thought how can such a friendly, giving, kind, funny and silly person have to go through something so painful that drains you, to the point where you feel like you can’t take much more. Having two children, taking care of a household, receiving so many hospital bills that the insurance will not cover has been a major hassle. When I look at her and my grand babies, I just say Lord please make away.

The Father of Chasity’s children,Charles:

When Chasity, the mother of my children called me crying, telling me she was diagnosed with colon cancer, my heart fell to my stomach. The thought of her potentially dying and not being here to watch our children grow has been unbearable. We are a wonderful team when is comes to coparenting and I couldn’t do it without her. Watching the effects of what the chemotherapy and radiation is doing to her mind and body is painful. Her memory loss is what affects me the most. I rather be going through it rather than her. I wish I could trade places with her and bare this painful burden. At times she says she ok but I know she’s not. She just doesn’t want us to worry. That shows her strength. We are a family of faith so I know God will see us through.

From Chasity:

I go to radiation at 9am every morning Monday thru Friday for 20 minutes. I worry more about life, like if there was anything I could’ve did or changed my eating habits to prevent this from happening. Haven’t considered grief counseling. The worst part of radiation for me so far is getting a UTI and my bottom burning at times. I ask God for strength for my family and I to get through this process. I was having trouble swallowing which led me to go get checked out, I went for a endoscopy and was telling the doctor about my bowel movements changing so they did a colonoscopy as well, that’s when I found out I had colon cancer a couple weeks later they told me that it was stage 3. The first thing I thought about when I was told I had colon cancer was DEATH! The only way I could react was to cry. To cope with everything I just take it day by day, doing my normal activities and trying to stay as positive as I can. My kids mean the world to me & even though they know everything that’s going on with me , I want to keep their lives as normal as possible and keep them positive. I don’t want to them to worry about their mama. Not working has taken a toll on my abilities to maintain the household. I need support paying bills, rent, car payment, medical and etc. taking care of my family. Any amount of support will really make a difference.

A letter from Chasity’s Sister:

When the Dr. first told me about here diagnosis, I just felt my heart sink. l went numb and thought to myself “I can't be happening.” It was surreal & I was so scared because I didn't know what to expect & I was scared of seeing her sick. For quite a while I was angry at God (if i'm being honest) because I felt like it wasn't fair. Chasity is a really good person & she doesn’t deserve this. I wish I could fix it. I blamed myself because I didn't push her to check here health sooner when she was having symptoms. Especially as a nurse, I felt like I should've seen some signs or red flags but all in all I wasn't expecting this. I feel a little better & I've talked to God & she’s been taking it so well & keeping her spirits up. It helps me a whole lot knowing she’s staying positive but I know deep down she is hurting deep. Ya’ll please help my beautiful sister. She needs so much care and support. I KNOW WE GON BEAT THIS I LOVE YOU SIS!!!