Help Phoenix Transition Out Of Toxic Work Environment!

Hi, my chosen name is Phoenix, and I’m asking for help as I take a big step: transitioning out of a toxic work environment that’s been draining my health, energy, and mental health for far too long.

Many people have supported me as I’ve worked to rebuild my life and maintain stability after escaping an abusive situation in 2021, experiencing homelessness shortly after, and not attaining secure housing until December 2023. When my mother passed in September 2023, I lost not only a loved one but also the only genuine safety net and stability I had left. My birthday is on July 9th, and lately I’ve been experiencing more breakdowns despite trying incredibly hard to keep my mental health intact — the weight of this job is really getting to me, and I worry that if I don’t release it now, I’ll spiral around my birthday, which is already a sensitive time.

On top of this, I’ve been facing a hostile work environment marked by inconsistent scheduling, discriminatory treatment, and disregard for my well-being — including racial bias and neglect of my mental health needs during an already vulnerable time. This has caused constant stress and burnout, leaving me no choice but to step away to protect myself.

Letting go of a job that’s been more harmful than helpful means giving myself the space to heal, reset, and move toward opportunities that truly value me. To make this shift smoother, I’m raising funds to cover my basic needs while I find my footing and protect my peace. I’m working hard to secure a better job (pushing applications and waiting to hear back from interviews) at the moment because my second job (which is about to be my only job) openly offers me 2-4 shifts per month.

Your support, shares, and kind words mean so much and help me step into this next chapter with hope and stability. Thank you. <3