Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your kindness, love, prayers and support. Every share and donation is making a difference. Thank you everyone :)

Hi my name is Liv. I am writing this on behalf of my beloved older brother, Paul Caiafa, his wife, and their four beautiful children.

On Wednesday, 22 April 2026, Paul went into a Melbourne hospital for his second brain surgery to remove a benign tumour near his brain stem. Before this day, Paul was fit, healthy, and full of life. Tragically, the surgery became highly complicated, lasting an agonising 14 hours. During the procedure, Paul woke up and also suffered a catastrophic stroke.

The Current Reality

Paul has now been fighting for his life in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU) in Melbourne for over three months.

The Physical Toll:

He is currently paralysed from the neck down. His spinal cord is undamaged, but the stroke caused severe brain neuron damage.

The Medical Setup:

He relies on a brain stent to manage intracranial swelling and is now peg-fed.

Communication:

A tracheostomy tube prevents him from speaking. He communicates entirely through eye movements and by us lip-reading his words.

Despite these overwhelming odds, Paul is a fighter. Because his spinal cord is intact, we firmly believe his brain can forge new neural pathways. He can rebuild, but he needs time, intensive rehabilitation, and his family by his side.

The Financial Burden

Paul and his wife have completely exhausted all of their paid work leave. Paul is a devoted father and husband, and even from his ICU bed, he is constantly stressed, wondering how he will provide for his family. While he wants to access his superannuation, the process has proven incredibly difficult because he cannot speak or physically sign paperwork.

To make matters harder, Paul’s family lives in regional Victoria (Shepparton). Traveling to the Melbourne ICU takes over 3 hours each way via regional trains and trams. This distance makes it emotionally and financially draining for his wife and kids to give him the bedside presence he desperately needs.

How Your Donation Helps

We are reaching out to our community to strip away the financial burden suffocating this family. Every single dollar raised will go directly toward:

Living Expenses: Covering food, bills, and everyday costs for his wife and four children.

Travel & Accommodation: Funding train fares, fuel, and Melbourne accommodation so Paul's wife can stay at his bedside permanently without the brutal 6-hour daily commute.

Easing Paul's Mind: Allowing Paul to focus 100% of his energy on rewiring his brain and recovering, rather than worrying about financial ruin.

Paul has always been there for others. Now, he and his family need us. Any contribution, no matter how small, will make a massive difference in their lives. If you cannot donate, please consider sharing Paul's story.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your kindness, love, prayers and support.