Help my husband and children

Hi my name is Hope Finley and I really don't know how to begin.. I am a mother of two wonderful teenagers,and a wife to an amazing guy who has stood by me through everything.I am heading down to Roshester hospital to have part of my lung taken out.. I will be put on a ventilator for at least two days,it all depends on how things go..They have found very active bacteria in my middle lobe on my right side.. They have already went in and removed it but it has grown back very fast. It has also blocked and ruined that lobe.. if they don't go in and remove it I will just keep getting sick and it will spread to the rest of my lung. I am very scared .. I am asking for help for my children while I am there cause they want to be there. It will be used for my childrens stay while I am there... Also it will help with gas,food and whatever my children or husband may need.. My husband will have to take all this time of work to be my words and be my strength.. I am so scared... I didn't want to do this but right now I don't have any other choice... I have had many health issues and have never wanted to ask for help... This one is just the hardest with having to go that far and be fine for at least a week... Anything you could do to help I would be thankful.. If you have any questions feel free to ask.. I am willing to answer any questions