There's nothing I hate more than the idea of publicly asking for money, especially while so many people, especially in this country, face injustice and grave disparity.

That said, I’m needing help covering out-of-pocket medical expenses after a serious decline in my health over the past year. In late 2025 I experienced two stress-induced mini strokes (TIAs), or possible PNES episodes during a chronically abusive relationship that had a documented impact on my nervous system and overall physical health. My healthcare providers have been clear that the abusive nature of the relationship was the primary cause of these medical events. I have experienced significant hair loss, cognitive impairment, and vision issues that have made daily functioning a challenge. As my health worsened, I was no longer able to continue working and ultimately lost my job.

During this period, my partner repeatedly encouraged me to seek medical specialists and assured me—on multiple occasions—that he would cover the cost of my care, as I am uninsured. Relying on those assurances in good faith, I moved forward with the treatment plan my doctors recommended. He continued to reaffirm he would be paying.

That commitment was later withdrawn without warning. This partner canceled his credit cards, ceased communication, and left both me and my healthcare providers with unpaid bills. All dialogue was cut off, leaving me solely responsible for medical expenses I had not planned for and cannot reasonably absorb—especially after losing my income due to illness.

Over the past month, I’ve attempted to negotiate payment plans and fee reductions with my providers, but those efforts were unsuccessful. The financial strain of this situation—particularly given the suddenness and timing—has significantly compounded the stress of an already serious health recovery.

I’m sharing this carefully and intentionally. I’m not asking anyone to judge the past or take sides. I’m asking for help addressing the real and ongoing costs of medical care that arose from circumstances that directly affected my health, livelihood, and stability.

I’ve always worked to support myself and live within my means. Asking for help like this is not easy for me, but taking on additional medical debt alone would jeopardize my ability to continue treatment and rebuild stability.

What the funds will support:

-Follow-up doctor visits and a full cardiac evaluation

-Diagnostic tests and prescribed medications

-IV treatments and medically recommended nutritional support

-Acupuncture as part of my care plan

-If any funds remain, therapy to support recovery

Any support—financial or otherwise—is deeply appreciated and will go directly toward outstanding medical bills and approximately three months of the treatment plan outlined by my doctor. If you’re not in a position to contribute, I completely understand.

I don’t have family support, so community care means a great deal to me in all its forms. Thank you for reading, for your care, and for any support you’re able to offer.

With gratitude,

Molly