On October 18th last year, my nephew Michael’s life changed forever when he suffered a hemorrhagic stroke that caused a brain bleed over 60% of the left side of his brain. His identical twin brother TJ found him just in time, and he was rushed to NYU Langone Long Island Hospital, where doctors performed an emergency craniectomy to save his life. Michael spent five weeks on a ventilator, then transitioned to a trach and feeding tube. After a slow and determined recovery, he was able to move to a rehabilitation facility. Doctors were stunned that he survived, but clearly he is a fighter. Michael is now able to communicate his needs and wants with yes, no, and a few words, and he continues to work hard every day. He remains in a wheelchair and cannot walk, but can stand and transition with assistance. His spirit is lifted every time he is able to visit home. He has re-learned how to play video games and use his remotes with his left hand, and can eat and drink on his own, which has helped him experience some independence. We hope that being home full time will help him make the best progress possible as care and services truly begin.


Michael’s family has been at his side throughout this journey. My brother Bob and sister-in-law Sue, along with his identical twin TJ and the rest of our family, have provided unwavering support. Now, as we prepare to bring Michael home, we face new challenges. Their home needs major modifications to become fully wheelchair accessible. This includes widening doorways, renovating the bathroom, repairing the driveway and fence, redoing flooring for wheelchair use, and creating accessible walkways and ramps between Michael and TJ’s house and the family home. These changes are essential for Michael’s safety, comfort, and ability to stay connected with loved ones.


To help Michael get out for appointments and moments of normalcy, my brother Bob purchased a used wheelchair van. This has been vital for his recovery, giving him the chance to experience life outside the hospital and rehab. The financial burden of these modifications and ongoing care is significant, and state assistance has not yet come through.


Everyone who knows Bob and Sue knows that they have always—and will always—take the shirt off their backs for others. They are givers and never ask to receive, not ever. It took a full year to get permission to allow others to help and put up this GoFundMe for them. The financial, emotional, and physical strain has been very hard to see them endure. It is their turn to receive help, and we are grateful for any support others can give. Please share this as well. It takes a village, they say, so please help be part of that village and bring Michael home!


We’re reaching out for support to help bring Michael home and give him the best chance at continued recovery. Every contribution will make a real difference for him and his family. Thank you for your kindness and support.