Not everybody knows the true meaning of love , life and a happy family all living together As one. A lot of people take it for granted I hold my hands up I used to be one of those people I thankfully had a happy childhood even tho my parents were separated I still spent equal amount of time with them both. Then I seen the other side of it which is the situation I’m in right now as I have a wife and child in serbia But me being British doesn’t change the fact that they can just jump on a plane and come and join me. Sadly this is because of the the country that we live in that’s not possible as I will need something called a spouse visa which isn’t just costly you have to earn a certain amount of money to even apply for it. If I was rich they could come over instantly it seems one rule for the rich and one for the working class. The money they expect you to earn is beyond insanity but im determined to make the figure required to get them here one way or enough. Also I come To see them once a month in serbia which isn’t the cheapest. But for my little family it doesn’t matter what it takes or costs I’m there once a month every month to see them. People don’t realise the effect it has on my health both mentally and physically from worrying about my little girl will start to forget me then I will have to work even harder the next month I see her so she remembers me thanks to my wife dragana constantly telling her and FaceTiming me. I also have learning difficulties which honestly makes it soo much harder than if I didn’t have them also the worry about everything else that goes with the pressure of being in a long distance relationship when the two people you need the most. And they need you a lot more are thousands of miles away from you and you feel worthless and useless because your in this situation which is kinda like limbo. That’s a feeling that hurts the most but Thankfully things are looking up and there seems to be a light at the end of the very long tunnel which seemed to get longer and longer as the months go on but the wait is worth it to get my little family home and finally enjoy being an actually family properly ( not being a stranger that pops by every month or so. I’m not saying that’s how I feel but thankfully I don’t feel like that because my wife tries her best to make sure she FaceTimes me everyday in order for me to feel close to then both. But that’s never the same as being there everyday) So If you truly love the person or in my case persons in your life anything is possible if you love eachother enough and you have the will power to keep going strong and not
give up. There so many people in my situation going
through the same thing. You just got to stay strong.
thank you all for taking time to read this.