Help me put Tommy Thatcher to rest

This page is for Thomas 'Tommy' Thatcher who Died on fathers day of this year. We were together as a couple of kindred spirits, lovers, and best friends for ten years and knew each other for twenty. We were wound mates and soul mates. Two sides of the same coin. He was adventurous, clever, and off the charts emotionally intellegent.

In life he was a trades man and a bussines owner, a warrior, and a gladiator. He left this earth, way too early at 43.

He leaves a supportive, loving  brother, adam. An adoring little sister, nicole,  A helpful, good 'always there' friend paul, a forever broken hearted eternal girlfriend named, cleo, and his  beloved daughter, Ema (his heart).

Please help (if you can) to assist me raising the money for his grave. He had a grave he payed into but there was a balance of 3500 at his untimely death.  Once I pay off balance, I can have the ashes buried in the place he wanted to be laid to rest. Edison NJ- Where he was born. Died. And lived. I leave you with the the words Tommy had tatooed on his neck, 'life goes on for the living'.