My Mom's Final Dying Wish ❤

My Mom Passed away so fast and Unexpectedly she was suppose to write 5 wishes that she wanted to do before she passed but everything happened so sudden she wasn't even able to get one wish...

 

She left behind me and my younger sister who she adopted Im unemployed atm and struggling to raise my sister on my own But This is the one wish i really wanna be able to give to my mom and fulfil it ❤ she couldn't stress it enough that she wanted to be buried instead of a cremation! she said she wanted her body to be whole when she went up to be with God. Please help me give this to her. she left behind me and a little girl who she adopted and its been really hard on us.. we don't have enough for a burial i know I couldn't live with myself if I cant give this one last thing to her..

 

Just a 1 month and a half ago my mom called me and told me she had bad news she kept going to the hospital with severe pain and on the second trip to the hospital she called me and told me that she had really bad news i said what covid... she said no she has cancer in her lungs liver and pancreas. by the time they diagnosed her she was already in stage 4 cancer we both were in shock

life was about to change for the worst...

 

I took over taking care of my sister who is disabled which made things hard and i had no help from the the family which made it even harder. I struggled everyday watching my sister and being my mother's full time caregiver all the time, it was really hard since I was normally dependent on my mom. me and my mom would always share the responsibility of raising my sister and taking care of things in the house. but now it was all put it on me to do it by myself and with the added stress of the idea of losing my mom. I remember i would wake up and rush to my moms room everyday afraid she would pass when i wasn't by her side, it was stressful and scary.

 

my mom would have good days and bad days when it got really bad she would have to go to the hospital until she was stable enough to come back home. this last trip to the hospital my mom was telling me she was coming home i was so excited to have her back in the house i bought pumpkins to let her watch me n my sister carve pumpkins with her. my mom was excited to come back home to her daughter's and she told me she was proud of me stepping up taking care of my sister. I got the house all ready the next day when my mom was suppose to go home her phone was off it was strange then later I got a call from the doctors and they told me my mom had a brain bleed and that she was in a coma n not breathing on her own. I rushed to the hospital to be by her side cuz I didn't want her to die alone. for 4 days straight my mom fought and fought to live but her heart couldnt take it anymore and it gave out I was holding her hand as her heart rate dropped to a flat line it was the worst moments in my life and im still living the worst moment of my life

 

I miss her so much she was a incredible beautiful person ❤ anyone who met her loved and was blessed to come across her. she had this big huge personality she was so sweet and caring to anyone and everyone, never judged anyone did nice things for lots of people throughout her life she struggled as a single mom of 3 but still gave us the best life we could ever have. i have so many amazing good memories with her. I wish I could of made more..

 

she did so many good things in her life she was such a good person i inspire to be like her as I get older❤

 

she adopted a Beauiftul little girl and gave her the best of everything she was so spoiled and loved and majority of it she did it on her own i didnt realize how hard it was until I had to do it all. but when my mom was doing it she did it effortlessly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

my mom took in my family members when they went homeless and no one else let them in their home. she opened her doors and said there is no way she would let them stay on the streets even if we didn't have the space she would make space. there was only 3 of us and 8 of them so it became crowded in the house but my mom didn't care she was just happy knowing they were safe. she let them stay in our house for months until they found a house.

 

As a Mother all my siblings would say she was best mom. I know everyone says that about their mom but no honestly my mom really was the best she gave us everything she could and she did it all on her own. even as we became adults she never gave up on us as she was dying her last page on her phone was her trying to send my brother was over seas some money for his family. my mom had the biggest heart❤

 

No Donation is to small ❤Any and all Donations Help and are Greatly appreciated! ❤

 

My Mom told me she was proud of me for stepping up and being there for her but I never felt like i truly made her proud but I know if i accomplish this i would make her really proud ❤