For as long as I can remember, I have struggled with body dysphoria related to my chest. Even as a child, I was uncomfortable with developing breasts and often got in trouble at school because I didn’t want to wear a bra. The sensation was overwhelming, and because I have very sensitive skin, bras frequently left painful marks and bruises. As I’ve grown older, those feelings have never gone away. My chest has never felt like it belongs on my body, and it has made it difficult to feel comfortable expressing myself authentically. I often find myself limiting what I wear because I don’t want to draw attention to my chest or show too much cleavage. Rather than feeling like a part of me, my breasts have always felt like something I have to manage and hide.

My experiences have also been shaped by being assaulted in adulthood. Since then, my chest has become even more closely tied to feelings of vulnerability and being targeted. Instead of feeling confident and safe in my body, I often feel exposed and uncomfortable. Top surgery is not about becoming someone different—it’s about finally feeling at home in my own body. I want the freedom to express myself without the constant discomfort, dysphoria, and fear that I have carried for so many years. I want to feel more confident embracing my femininity on my own terms, without feeling defined by a part of my body that has never felt like mine.

The funds raised will help cover the costs of surgery, medical expenses, recovery, and related expenses. Every donation and share brings me one step closer to feeling comfortable, safe, and confident in my own skin. Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for any support you can offer.