Help Matt’s Back and family out
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This is my husband Matt. He is a great husband and an even better father. We have an 11 and 9 year old daughters. After years and years of living in pain, we have finally decided he needs to have back fusion surgery that he should’ve had when he was a lot younger. (The neurosurgeon believed he was still to young to have the surgery when we first consulted him, so we waited and tried everything we could to keep him as pain free as possible.) This past week he finally hit his wall and is in so much pain that he can barely walk, sit or sat. He can’t play with his girls anymore and it breaks his heart everyday to see how he can barely function as a normal human being should anymore. We have an appointment with the neurosurgeon next week on September 4th. We are planning on scheduling his surgery date next week and hope it’s something he can have as soon as possible.
Here is where we need everyone’s help, my amazing husband is also the main provider for our family. I work and make a good living, but we can’t make it on the income of only 1 person, especially when he’ll be out of work anywhere from 4-6 months. It would be a gift that is above and beyond anything we could ever imagine if anyone could donate to help provide for the surgery. Anything at all would help, and would keep us from drowning and him beating himself up for not being able to work. For those of you who don’t know my husband personally, he works through everything and barely ever takes a day off, even if he should. He hasn’t been able to work for the beginning of this week so far and it’s slowly killing him inside. I hate to see it, and want to take his hurt away. The only way to do that is to have the surgery that will hopefully take his pain. I pray everyday that god will make the surgery a success and that life will continue as we knew it before he hurt his back.
I just want to grow old with him and watch our daughters grow up to have their own families. I don’t want to loose him before that happens. Please, if you can donate anything, I personally would be eternally grateful and I hope if you ever need anything, I can return the favor!
Thank you for reading my long winded statement!
Here is where we need everyone’s help, my amazing husband is also the main provider for our family. I work and make a good living, but we can’t make it on the income of only 1 person, especially when he’ll be out of work anywhere from 4-6 months. It would be a gift that is above and beyond anything we could ever imagine if anyone could donate to help provide for the surgery. Anything at all would help, and would keep us from drowning and him beating himself up for not being able to work. For those of you who don’t know my husband personally, he works through everything and barely ever takes a day off, even if he should. He hasn’t been able to work for the beginning of this week so far and it’s slowly killing him inside. I hate to see it, and want to take his hurt away. The only way to do that is to have the surgery that will hopefully take his pain. I pray everyday that god will make the surgery a success and that life will continue as we knew it before he hurt his back.
I just want to grow old with him and watch our daughters grow up to have their own families. I don’t want to loose him before that happens. Please, if you can donate anything, I personally would be eternally grateful and I hope if you ever need anything, I can return the favor!
Thank you for reading my long winded statement!
Organizer
Lillian Borhan
Organizer
Cape Coral, FL