For the past 30 years, I have been a live-in caregiver for Keith, providing him with 24-hour support and companionship. We currently live together in California, but as his caregiver, I have no housing security of my own. My family is in New Mexico, and I recently found a house there that could be our new home. We are making this move not only to be closer to family, but also to give Keith a better life as we both get older. The support from family that we have been lacking due to distance will make a world of difference for both of us.
However, moving states comes with a huge challenge: there is no way to transfer Keith’s care services directly between California and New Mexico. The process to get him approved for services in New Mexico could take over 10 months, leaving us in a difficult position. Without support, I would have no choice but to work outside the home, and Keith would be left without the care he needs. I made a promise when I started caring for Keith that I would never abandon him, and I never will. I could make this move without him, but that isn’t an option in my heart.
We are asking for help to bridge this gap and make the transition as smooth as possible for Keith. The funds raised will allow me to continue caring for Keith 24/7 during the year-long transition, cover our moving expenses, and help us purchase the medical equipment he needs in our new home. We will also need to make important renovations—like installing ramps, grab bars, and other safety features—to ensure our new home is accessible and compliant with state requirements for supportive services. These changes are essential for Keith’s safety and for him to qualify for the care he needs in New Mexico.
Your support will help Keith remain safe, cared for, and close to family during this challenging time. Any contribution, big or small, will make a meaningful difference in our lives. Thank you for considering helping us on this journey.
However, moving states comes with a huge challenge: there is no way to transfer Keith’s care services directly between California and New Mexico. The process to get him approved for services in New Mexico could take over 10 months, leaving us in a difficult position. Without support, I would have no choice but to work outside the home, and Keith would be left without the care he needs. I made a promise when I started caring for Keith that I would never abandon him, and I never will. I could make this move without him, but that isn’t an option in my heart.
We are asking for help to bridge this gap and make the transition as smooth as possible for Keith. The funds raised will allow me to continue caring for Keith 24/7 during the year-long transition, cover our moving expenses, and help us purchase the medical equipment he needs in our new home. We will also need to make important renovations—like installing ramps, grab bars, and other safety features—to ensure our new home is accessible and compliant with state requirements for supportive services. These changes are essential for Keith’s safety and for him to qualify for the care he needs in New Mexico.
Your support will help Keith remain safe, cared for, and close to family during this challenging time. Any contribution, big or small, will make a meaningful difference in our lives. Thank you for considering helping us on this journey.
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