Hi, I’m Jet :)
I turn 25 today (21/06/25) and after 5 and a half years of navigating gender dysphoria, my gift to myself is finally asking for help to fund my top surgery.
I’ve wanted top surgery since I first started binding and socially transitioning at 19, but I chose to take my time to be certain and ready for this big, permanent step.
I’ve bound my chest for 4 years and am healing from the exhaustion and strain it put on my body. Binders compress the ribs, lungs and back, and I’m no longer able to wear one. So, for the past 2 years have used sports tape/binding tape to bind. It’s a temporary, expensive, and uncomfortable fix.
I still struggle with chest dysphoria, and it’s time to move forward.
Top surgery is out of my financial reach right now, which is why I’m asking for support. I’ve set a starting goal based on UK surgery costs (£10-15K for chests around my size), though I may travel for a lower cost option. Any extra funds raised will go to other trans fundraisers, prioritising Trans Women of the global majority.
I’ll also be organising events and selling art to help fundraise. Keep an eye out on my Instagram for updates: @womb__man - that’s 2 underscores (lol)
If you know me, you know asking for help isn’t easy. I’m very aware of the many other places funding needs to go, and I place no pressure to donate to me.
This is a process and I don’t expect it to happen over night.
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD (he’s officially a scatter-brained babe!) which made tackling something this big feel overwhelming… for years. But I’m finally here, and I’m grateful for any help, whether that’s donating, sharing, or reaching out with advice.
I’d also love accessibility support for the research/admin side of top surgery.
If anyone can sit/call with me to help me keep focused and do the work, I’d hugely appreciate it. I’m happy to trade services, art, or practical help. I can’t put my email in this, so please get in touch via my Instagram mentioned above!
Thank you for reading, supporting, and being part of this with me.
With love & gratitude,
Jetsün Shenkyong-ma
he/him