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Help Jessa Reclaim Their Life and Their Belongings

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Urgent Help Needed – Escaping Narcissistic Abuse

Hi, my name is Dakota, and I am reaching out on behalf of Jessa, who desperately needs help. Jessa recently escaped a narcissistically abusive relationship, forcing them to leave behind half of their life—their precious memories, sentimental valuables, clothing, and furniture—in California.

For safety reasons, Jessa had to relocate abruptly and wasn’t able to retrieve their belongings. Now, they are living in fear of what their ex might do to these irreplaceable things. Time is running out, and we need to act fast before everything they cherish is gone forever.

Why This Fundraiser Is Critical

Jessa struggles with ADHD, Major Depressive Disorder, Bipolar II Disorder, and Autism, making it extremely difficult for them to maintain a conventional job and save the money needed for this trip. The cost of retrieving their belongings is simply beyond what they can manage alone.

That’s why I’m organizing this GoFundMe—to give Jessa the chance to reclaim what was stolen from them and finally move forward in their healing journey.

The Plan

I have carefully calculated the cost of this trip to ensure Jessa can safely travel to retrieve their belongings. This GoFundMe will cover:

• Gas: $2,000 (for the round trip across the country)
• U-Haul Rental: $4,883 (to transport their belongings)
• Hotels & Lodging: $900 (for safe overnight stays during travel)
• Food & Essentials: $400 (for meals during the trip)
• Emergency Funds & Unexpected Expenses: $1,000 (just in case)

This totals $9,183 exactly.

Why We Need Your Help

This fundraiser is being done discreetly to protect Jessa’s safety. Their ex cannot know about this, and there is no other way for them to make this trip happen without help.

Jessa has been through so much, and I just want to help them get their life back. These aren’t just things—they are the last pieces of a life they were forced to leave behind. We need to act fast before they lose everything forever.

Every dollar, every discreet share (please keep to Facebook--thankfully their ex is not on the platform), every kind word makes a difference. Please consider donating or sharing this fundraiser so we can get Jessa back what’s rightfully theirs.

Thank you for your kindness, generosity, and for helping my best friend start fresh.
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    Dekotuh Day
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    Ocean Springs, MS
    Jessa Day
    Beneficiary

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