Help Jazz and Ralph close the distance!

We have been dating long-distance for six years. SIX WHOLE YEARS. We've only spent about four months of those six years together in person, which obviously isn't a lot! But we know we both want to be together, but we need help to make that happen!

I, Ralph, live in Ireland, and Jazz is aaaaaall the way over in Southern California. Our goal is to get me over there so we can move in together. I'm a student trying to get a degree in graphic design, and Jazz works full-time as an event coordinator. Neither of us has the disposable income to fund such a big move across some 7000km, and then we need money to help with travel and living costs.

We just want to be a happy little couple, play board games, grow houseplants and raise pets!

We're asking for €3000 because that will cover flights for a few times a year to make sure I (Ralph) don't overstay a holiday visit of 3 months, I will have to return to Ireland or Europe in order to have another 3 months in America until I can find work and extend my stay with a work visa. I've also applied for the green card lottery and the next drawing is in 2024. So 3k covers 3-4 flights a year for 2 years if I need to hop back and forth continuously. We have a lot of hoops to jump through to be together properly but with your help it might be easier.