Help Jason & Theresa Keep Their Home And Family Stability.

Hello to all our family, friends, and compassionate supporters,

I would like to begin by expressing my gratitude for reaching this point in your journey. This has been one of the most challenging endeavors I have undertaken in my life, and we are all aware of the immense hardships I have faced.

I have never been one to solicit financial assistance. I have consistently worked diligently and endured immense struggles to make it through each day. Over the past few months, my family’s life has undergone a profound transformation, characterized by numerous setbacks and disruptions. As a result, it has become increasingly difficult to accomplish even the most basic daily tasks. I assure you that this is not attributable to a lack of motivation, ambition, or effort.

I would like to take a moment to reflect on the events that transpired during the past year for my family and myself.

Over a year ago, Jason and I were fortunate enough to acquire our dream home, not only for ourselves but also for our cherished daughter, Giavanna, and our beloved canine companions, Sparkle and Diesel. To make this dream a reality, we had diligently saved a significant portion of our funds, ensuring that the house was not only livable but also approved for loan approval.

Upon acquiring the property, we discovered that it required substantial renovations due to years of neglect. Amidst this transformative process, we prioritized ensuring that Giavanna had a room that met her aspirations, or at the very least, provided ample space. Consequently, we repurposed the two smaller bedrooms into a single, spacious room, which we named Gigi’s room.

The remaining standard-sized bedroom served as a comfortable haven for our family. The journey to our dream home was not without its challenges, but the satisfaction of seeing our vision come to life was immeasurable.

In addition to our home, our furry companions also had their own designated space, including a yard where they could roam and play freely. Given our limited financial resources, we opted to gradually renovate the house room by room, allowing us to customize it to our liking at our own pace.

Throughout the renovation process, we meticulously utilized the furniture we had from our previous apartment, which was located at my mother’s residence. We transformed our living room into a sophisticated space with exquisite furniture, and Giavanna’s room finally had her beautiful bedroom furniture. Additionally, my mother gifted me a beautiful dining room set.

While we were busy with the renovations, we made the most of the available space and, for a while, we even had an extra bed we had purchased for our bedroom. The sole essence of our relationship revolved around sharing a bed, retiring to sleep side by side, and awakening in each other’s embrace.

Regrettably, one fateful night in March, I received a call that would forever alter the course of our lives.

At that moment, what I anticipated would be a typical call with Jay, characterized by his playful banter and teasing, transpired into something entirely different. A man introducing himself as Mike informed me that Jason had been involved in a severe accident. Initially, I mistook it for a prank call and responded, “Okay, you can put Jay on the phone.” However, Mike persisted in explaining that Jason was trapped inside the vehicle, immobilized, and emitting excruciating pain, pleading for my assistance.

Amidst a tempest of emotions, I inquired of Mike if everyone else involved in the accident was unharmed. He assured me that no other vehicles had been involved and that debris, specifically a substantial rock or boulder, had been present on the road. It was only after he had observed it that he swerved into the left lane, with Jason following closely behind and a vehicle beside him. In this precarious situation, Jason was compelled to swerve right.

The car collided with the curb and subsequently climbed the incline. The front end of the vehicle not only impacted but also penetrated a telephone pole before striking a tree. Mike repeatedly expressed his fear and emphasized the gravity of the accident. In an attempt to provide a sense of context and guide me to the scene, I inquired about the location of the incident.

With my car full, having picked up my daughter and her friends from Applebee’s, I promptly alerted them to contact their parents, informing them that I would take them for a ride and return them home after reaching the scene of the accident. As I drew closer to the accident site, the sight was dominated by emergency lights. Upon approaching the vehicle that Jason was driving, Giavanna, seeing the vehicle, began to scream and desperately cry for her father.

This was undoubtedly one of the most emotionally distressing moments of my life. The anguish and concern conveyed in her voice are indelible in my memory. After enduring an hour of waiting at the accident scene, witnessing the paramedics’ efforts to extract Jay from the vehicle and alleviate his pain, I finally spotted Jason. He was immobilized, tears streaming down his face, expressing his severe pain. I reassured him that I would be at the hospital with him and advised him to remain still. The paramedics informed me that transporting him from the ambulance to the ER bed would require some time.

With Gigi’s friends and Gigi safely home, My father came to our house to stay with her. Giavanna expressed a strong desire to accompany me to the hospital, but I felt that witnessing her father’s condition and the emotional toll would be overwhelming for her. Additionally, I prioritized her rest and decided to pick her up in the morning so that she could see him without unnecessary distress.

During my journey to the hospital, I received a call from one of the doctors accompanying Jay. He urgently requested my presence, as Jason necessitated immediate medical attention. Jason confided in me, expressing his need for me to make crucial medical decisions, including signing necessary documents and facilitating swift action.

Upon my arrival, I was overwhelmed by an array of emotions. Doctors explained intricate procedures and surgeries, while simultaneously highlighting the potential risks of amputations that required constant medication. These decisions could result in Jay’s hospitalization in a medically induced coma, or even vegetative state, known as unresponsive wakefulness syndrome.

I unequivocally express my utmost opposition to anyone experiencing anything akin to what I endured. The emotional journey I traversed encompassed my own feelings, those of Gigi, and the anguish of Jay and his condition. The sheer magnitude of the situation far exceeds any attempt to adequately describe the depth of my emotions.

Following the night of the accident, Jason underwent multiple procedures and surgeries. He was hospitalized for three weeks, and my insurance covered only three days of his stay. Unfortunately, it did not cover the ambulance ride. Fortunately, the procedures and surgeries were covered as far as I know. I am hopeful that this situation will continue.

Initially, I believed that the situation would end there. However, unfortunately, it did not. Jason was not permitted to be released from the hospital until I provided proof of medical equipment. The hospital did not provide any equipment nor did they assist in locating suitable facilities. I am disappointed that my insurance did not cover the equipment I was required to obtain for Jason. While I was searching for churches, I encountered difficulties in finding suitable options.

In times such as these, organizations and individuals who provide assistance are instrumental in supporting families. However, the circumstances surrounding our situation have left me with disturbing thoughts and concerns about the lack of support we received.

Medical equipment, as anyone who has purchased it knows, is not an inexpensive endeavor. Additionally, our bedroom was the sole room where we could work on Jay’s recovery. Consequently, I needed to purchase a bed frame and box spring with the appropriate height to facilitate his smooth transition between his wheelchair and bed. Finally, we were ready to bring him home and embark on his recovery journey from the hospital.

The transition has been arduous, and there have been more days than I care to admit that ended with me in tears. I felt as though my life had reached a nadir, and the darkness seemed insurmountable.

To make matters worse, I woke up to discover that my employer had abruptly terminated overtime offers, effective immediately. This news overwhelmed me, and I found myself breaking down throughout the day. To be honest, my paychecks now feel like a waste of my efforts, as the expenses for our insurance, which I am uncertain about the full extent of but recognize as essential, remain untouched. The small amounts they do cover are insufficient to cover our needs. After deducting these expenses from my paycheck, which now has no overtime pay, my income ranges between $334 and $480.

Physically, I am unable to make ends meet, and my anxiety, stress, and depression have reached unprecedented levels. The constant fear of waking up to essential services being shut off, coupled with the worsening nature of the situation, has left me in a state of profound despair.

I am currently facing a daunting obstacle that seems insurmountable. I do not wish to burden anyone with my pain, struggles, or financial concerns. However, I find myself in a constant state of emotional distress, breaking down every day, both during the day and night.

I am deeply grateful for the prayers, guidance, and support that come my way, as well as the hope that our worries will eventually be lifted. I am eager to find a way to overcome this crisis and restore a semblance of normalcy to our lives. In light of our dire financial situation, I am compelled to initiate a GoFundMe campaign to secure our beloved home. Currently, we find ourselves three months behind on our mortgage payments, a situation beyond our control. My current salary does not provide me with the means to contribute to the mortgage, and we struggle to cover our daily expenses, including electricity, phone, water, oil, and medical bills.

Despite our hardships, we have consistently sought alternative solutions to maintain our home. However, the utility companies are relentless in their pursuit of payment, deeming our account past due. I have endeavored to explain our circumstances, but our efforts have been met with indifference.

In this dire situation, I am reaching out to my family and friends for any form of assistance that can be provided to my family. I am aware that Jason and I have a history of providing unwavering support to those in need. We have consistently offered our assistance without expecting any form of reciprocity.

With your help, not only will you enable me and my family to continue our efforts to maintain our home, but you will also provide me with the financial means to cover our essential expenses, including the mortgage, utilities, medical bills, and other necessities.

I acknowledge that many individuals are facing financial challenges, and I assure you that I will pass this request forward as soon as Jason secures employment. Asking for help is the most difficult endeavor I have ever undertaken, compounded by the fear of losing our home. If I do not seek assistance, I cannot claim to have fully committed myself to saving my family from this dire situation.

In addition, if you are able to assist in making a donation, and there is anything Jason or I could do to help you in any way, please let us know. We are not opposed to assisting, working, etc., in return for your assistance! Jason has pushed himself in his recovery process against medical consent to go out and seek full-time employment. I wish I could tell him that we do not need him to rush this process, but I would be lying, and he is aware of it. He feels my pain, suffering, and worry! Out of many shops he reached out to, went to, and/or applied to, he expressed that they are currently not hiring, or that they are slow and unable to take on any additional staff. Nevertheless, if anyone needs anything done to their car, please keep Jason in mind. He still owns the shop, and regardless of whether I am married to Jay or not I would always refer anyone and everyone to him for all of their auto repairs, painting etc., because anyone who knows Jason and his quality of work knows that he truly possesses exceptional hands when it comes to auto body work, and I am certain that they will be a very satisfied customer when he is done. Any insurance adjuster that has been here expresses how he truly is talented they also add how the name of Jay’s shop couldn’t be more fitting.“No Joke Auto Collision & Towing” So if there is anything Jason or myself can do in return in helping us please just let us know. Anything to save our house and help our family we will do!!!

To all who took the time to read my family’s struggles and pain during this challenging time, I want to express my gratitude for taking the time in doing so. Every contribution, big or small, helps cover essential expenses. Your support makes a significant difference in our life.

Again, thank you to everyone in advance for helping my family during this difficult hardship; your generosity is not only appreciated but also holds a special place in our hearts. If you are unable to donate, please consider sharing and keeping our family in your thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Theresa Agugliaro