
Help Fund D's Top Surgery
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Help D Fund Top Surgery!
Hi! My name is D (they/them/he), and I’m reaching out for support with my top surgery scheduled for July 7, 2025.
I’ve lived with gender dysphoria for most of my life. I’ve never felt like my chest belonged to me or aligned with who I truly am. Even as a kid, whenever I imagined my future, I saw myself with a flat chest. It was never a question of if I wanted surgery—just when. Once I learned top surgery was a real and accessible procedure, I knew that if I ever got the chance, I’d pursue it. Now I finally do!!
Top surgery isn’t just a medical procedure for me — it’s a step toward finally feeling at home in my own skin. I imagine the freedom of wearing a T-shirt without dysphoria, going swimming without a top, and most of all, feeling like me in my body.
I came out as trans-nonbinary to close friends in 2021 and publicly in 2023. My transition journey hasn’t been easy, but I’m hopeful this surgery will bring the peace and self-connection I’ve longed for. I’m incredibly lucky to have the love and support of my family and friends — without them, I wouldn’t be where I am today.
I’ve worked hard, saved what I can, and thankfully I have partial insurance coverage. But the total cost of surgery, travel, and recovery comes to around $13,000. I’ll also be out of work for several weeks during recovery, so I’m hoping to raise $5,000 to help bridge the financial gap.
Every little bit helps — whether that’s a donation, a kind word, or simply sharing this page with someone who might understand. Your support means the world to me. If you're able to help, know that you're not just funding a surgery — you're helping me feel whole.
Thank you so much for reading. I’d love to keep you updated throughout my journey — and I’m so grateful you’re here.
With love and gratitude,
D :))
Organizer
Deanna DiFebbo
Organizer
Marietta, GA