Help Fulfill Erin's Last Request: Urgent Support. Need ASAP

Hello all. If you guys know me, I am a very private person, and I usually am able to figure out situations. And you all know my disdain of being put in a situation where it's so serious and time-sensitive I have no choice but to go this route. My recently wedded wife tragically passed away last Saturday. I have been paying all the bills here for a while because Erin was ill. I have dropped over 22,000 bucks in about 3 or 4 months. Here's the problem. Some of that money I had to use to keep lights on and water running was allotted for her cremation, urn, and financial specialist that will consolidate all assets in the ether. I need to try to get this ASAP. Now that the mortuary has had her body for a week, I'm getting charged between 50-100 dollars a day for refrigerated storage. Catch 22. Once I pay the mortuary, then I get the death certificate. Then I can submit that to all the entities that need it and start the process of getting the funds properly distributed appropriately. I need the 1600 like yesterday. Wait, now it's either 1650-1700. And every day it's going to get worse. I would have done this earlier, but I was told by her employer that there were funds set aside just for that. But it's not going to happen soon enough. Please, please, please help me to do what has to be done so she can actually start to rest. She's sitting in a damn refrigerator. Please help. I have so much to do. And I need this part to be completed so I can actually take a breath, be able to sleep, and try to start this process of healing and get her ashes and spread them where she wanted them spread. It's a dying last request and I honestly feel like I'm dropping the ball on this. Anything will help. LITERALLY ANYTHING. This total will get out of hand ridiculously fast if this goes on much longer. Please. If not for me please for my wife. She deserves a smooth transition and its proving quite the opposite. Please. I am uber desperate.