My name is Erik, and I’m reaching out because I’m facing one of the hardest chapters of my life. I am in renal failure and need more surgeries, and it’s becoming more and more difficult to afford my bills. I’ve already had three kidney transplants—the last one, from my mom, has lasted me 28 years. I’m so grateful for the time and health that gift gave me, but now I’m back in a place where I need help to keep going.

The costs of living expenses, rent, car insurance, and especially medical bills are piling up. It’s overwhelming, and I know I can’t do this alone. What weighs on me most is the worry I see in my loved ones’ eyes. I want to give them peace of mind and show them I’m doing everything I can to get my life back on track.

I really don’t want to do this, but I have to humble myself and be realistic about my situation and health if I’m ever going to move forward. Asking for help has never been my strong suit—even in school, I’d never ask—but it’s time I grow up and be mature enough to reach out. To anyone who helps, sincerely thank you. I don’t know if I’ll ever deserve it, but I promise to put my best foot forward and make the most of the life I’ve been privileged to live.