Help Deuce (Nefarious De Vile)Get His Hysterectomy

Hello gorgeous people, and thank you so much for checking out my GoFundMe – I appreciate it more than words can say!

Behind the dynastic diva that is Nefarious De Vile stands me – Deuce – your grunge-glam gremlin with a soft spot for pyjamas and a lot more body hair than The NDV ever dares to show!

I'm a trans man who came out in 2017. I’ve been on testosterone for over 5 years now and had top surgery around 4 years ago – I still can’t believe it’s been that long! Top surgery saved my life, and I don’t say that lightly. I was lucky that my parents were able to take out a loan to make that happen. Without them, I genuinely don’t think I’d be here today. But I am here – imperfectly perfect at 25 – and I’m finally ready to take the next step in my transition.

I’ve been on the NHS waiting list for a hysterectomy since 2021. While I am deeply grateful for the NHS and everything it offers, the waiting times for gender-affirming surgeries are brutally long and, frankly, dangerous. It’s now been over 4 years – and even after a call from my mum, we still can’t get a timeline or even an estimate. Some people have waited even longer.

The truth is, I just can’t keep waiting. I’ve started saving and I’ve managed to get the ball rolling towards having my hysterectomy privately, but I need help to reach the finish line.

My gender dysphoria has been flaring up more frequently lately. It’s affecting my mental health, my sleep, and most painfully – my ability to feel comfortable enough to explore dating or physical connection. Top surgery gave me confidence I never thought possible, but the fear of periods and pregnancy, is still something that haunts me, I have literally nightmares about them, I want to feel fully at home in my body. I want to finally experience intimacy without fear.

Since day one of my transition, I’ve seen this journey as having three steps:

✅ Testosterone

✅ Top Surgery

⬜ Hysterectomy

So here I am, asking for help – not just to tick a final box, but to truly reclaim my body and continue becoming the man I know I am. My parents would help in a heartbeat if I asked, but I never want to put that financial strain on them again. They've already done so much for me, and this time I want to stand on my own feet – with a little help from my chosen family and community.

Anything you can give, no matter how small, brings me closer to freedom – to peace, to pride, to finally feeling complete.

Thank you so, so much.

With love,

Deuce

(a.k.a. Nefarious De Vile ❤️‍)