Help Dani pay for divorce lawyer

My name is Dani. I recently began hormone therapy to transition. Unfortunately I'm also in the middle of a contentious divorce, in which my wife has said my gender identity has harmed the children's well being. She has refused to settle, causing my lawyer fees to skyrocket. I am trying to retain custody of my children, who both still live with me after she moved out. We are a one income household and cannot afford to pay mortgage and groceries on top of these legal fees. Thank you for any help you can provide.