Have you ever received a warm bowl of food or a fresh garden harvest from Emmett? How about that time they remembered something you were really excited about and reveled with you? Or when everyone else forgot you were sad, but Emmett didn't. Remember when they invited you to just be, exactly as you are, and you could tell from that slow grin that they really meant it?

This is just a small glimmer of what it feels like to know this wonder-of-a-being and dance (hands swimming to-and-fro, you know the move) through the murk and magic of it all by their side.

And now? They need a little lovin' as they prepare for top surgery with Dr. Facque at the Gender Confirmation Center on January 24. Their insurance covers 70% after their deductible, so they owe the Gender Confirmation Center approximately $8,300 including unforeseen anesthesia fees, pathology fees, etc.

For those who can, a bit of community help would go a long way. And...beyond financial help, Emmett's love language is words of affirmation, so don't be afraid to pen a little love note.