It is with the heaviest of heart and reluctance, as asking for help doesn’t come easily to me, and I’ve debated even sharing this.

I’ve tried to handle everything on my own, but I can’t do this part alone.

I’m still short on the costs for my dad’s cremation and am reaching out with humility and gratitude for any support.

I know with the holidays, many are struggling. I don’t expect anything, but if there ever comes a time in my life to return the kindness I absolutely look forward to that day. This hurts more than I was prepared for. Holly, Tristan, and I appreciate every gesture of love you’ve shown us, whether it be a phone call, a donation, a prayer, a hug. All of it.

Since my dad was a veteran, the VA covers a plot for him, headstone, digging, etc. however they do not cover the cost of cremation The funeral home is needing $1,250 for his cremation, so I can continue planning his funeral. ❤️‍ His dream was always to be buried so it’s breaking my heart having to settle for cremation but I’m still honoring his wishes burying his ashes up in Willamette National Cemetery.