Help Big Sexy Recover from Life-Altering Stroke

On what was meant to be a joyful adventure in Playa Del Carmen, Mexico, my husband — James, better known as Big Sexy BerryWhite — suffered a serious and unexpected stroke.

If you know Big Sexy, you know the energy he brings: husband, friend, poet, actor, writer, speaker, coach, and the heartbeat of every room. At just 53, Big was living his purpose — lighting up stages and hearts through spoken word, improv, and public speaking workshops we often led together. Now, he’s facing the greatest challenge of his life — and we need your help.

*A Strong Prognosis — But Recovery Isn’t Free*

Thanks to fast medical care and his unshakable spirit, Big's prognosis is excellent: doctors estimate a 95% recovery within six months — if he receives consistent therapy, medication, and nutrition support.

Because we’re in Mexico, recovery comes with steep out-of-pocket costs. Even with lower prices than in the U.S., comprehensive stroke care includes:

• IV and vitamin therapy to support brain and vascular healing

• Physical therapy 2–3x per week

• CT scan, MRI, and doppler screenings

• Wheelchair transport and in-home mobility assistance

• High-protein nutritional supplements

• 6–8 doctor visits monthly to monitor stroke-related risks

Estimated 6-month recovery costs: $14,000 USD

It’s more than we can carry alone — but with your help, we don’t have to.

How You Can Help

Your donation, no matter the size, goes directly toward:

• Critical physical therapy sessions

• Medical imaging and follow-up care

• Nutritional support for muscle and brain recovery

• Transportation and in-home care

• Giving James the best chance to return to his calling: uplifting others

If you’ve ever been moved by Big’s voice, his hugs, his humor, or his art — this is your moment to show up for him.

Donate. Share. Send Love.

If you can’t give financially, please share this page and send love, prayers, or words of encouragement. They mean more than you know.

Big Sexy can’t wait to get back on his feet, mic in hand, doing what he loves most: bringing light to the world.

With gratitude,

Nilla