Help Belinda Overcome Her Struggles

My name is Belinda Curry. I am 53 years old. After a 5-year-long battle with the Georgia Department of Family and Children Services, I have legally adopted 3 young biological grandsons: Liam (5), Caanin (4), and Dillan (3). I really don’t know where to start. I struggle with pride and embarrassment. Many would say I shouldn’t be, and some will talk negatively about me, but the end result is me loving and trusting in the LORD to grant me the strength to reach out for help.

I have always been quite self-sufficient, always helping others even when I can’t. I overextend myself for the likes of others and show up for them when needed. I have made mistakes in life, some unintentional and some intentional, thinking I can change the situation. Anyone who knows me knows doggone well I’m not perfect, but in the same thought, they know that my heart is pure and I am always putting myself on hold for the likes of others, some who don’t deserve it.

On January 9th, 2019, my life changed. Baby Liam, then 4 months, was placed in my care. I was a flight attendant who was in love with her career. Still in awe because how will I care for this baby? Not thinking twice, I jumped into character and accepted him with open arms and a great big heart. My credit was bad, I had no baby items, I flew around the world for a living, I was living away from family and friends, and how will I give him the life he deserves? My youngest son was a senior in HS.

Fast-forwarding to September 1, 2021, Caanin, then 2, and Dillan, 6 months, were placed in my care. I must admit while some would have an eyebrow raised, I again lovingly and proudly welcomed them with open arms. I haven’t skipped a beat since. Needless to say, it’s been a struggle that I have managed to make it appear easy.

I know some will have a little voice tell them, she got them kids and she gets money for them, yes I do. However, when it’s kin to you it's lower, then when you agree to adopt it’s cut in another half so all that money you may think I get stops at $409 per child! Not by far, has it been anything less than a struggle.

So why am I here? I’ll tell you. I am asking for help. On yesterday, what was supposed to be one of the most happiest days of my life took a turn for the worse. Yesterday, my Caanin and Dillan were officially adopted, they were the last of the process and it was over! However, on yesterday, I allowed my son to drive my car and he was involved in an accident. He wasn’t hurt thankfully. See a pic above. Police towed it because it was blocking traffic, not allowing me to tow it. The tow is $624 with $25 a day. Yes, I have insurance, however unbeknownst to me, I didn’t have rental reimbursement or roadside assistance. I have a $2500 deductible, not to mention if they total out the vehicle, I will be upside down, which they probably will have I was told.

I have to Uber to work and to the kids' school which will be about $60 a day. Which comes out to be $300 a week. Clearly, I can’t afford this. It’s looking like I may have to resign. It’s a part-time position. I’m probably going to need a new vehicle so I’m preparing for the heartache now. Nothing has been determined nor assessed as of yet. It happened yesterday evening.

I am more than happy to answer any questions you have if there is any doubt. If you have it in your heart to help, I would most definitely appreciate it. No amount is too little. Everything is appreciated. Please understand this is a super accelerated version of my life, please don’t pass judgment, I don’t have space nor energy to keep typing all details. What is also genuine is my cry for help. I love you all. Thank you in advance.