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HELP Ady Ormes fight with terminal cancer

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Ady Orme, Partner, Father, Grandfather , Assistant manager at E.U Stamford for 15years and Ex Raf serviceman age only 52years old.

On 28th November Ady had to go to A&E at Peterborough Hospital after suffering with severe shoulder and chest pains. He had already been in contact with his doctor 2 weeks prior to this but due to the current covid-19 circumstances he was only spoken to over the telephone and was told it was a muscular problem. During these previous weeks he still managed to go to work but was in pain all day, struggled to get any sleep at night and was unable to do any extra daily activities and also stop his beloved hobby of golf with his friends at the weekend.
The hospital had decided to keep Ady in for several tests and on Tuesday 1st December, my mum,  Sandra Wade received the most devastating phone call.  She was told the life changing news that Ady had inoperable lung cancer that had already spread to his liver and brain.  
On Wednesday 9th they both went to Adys Oncologist appointment where their news became even worse, they were told that the cancer was terminal, he may have weeks or at best months left to live.  Ady has deteriorated drastically and struggles a short walk with their beloved dogs and Sandra. She has now become his carer and is off work but is due to return next month. But as things seem worse it only gets harder for them both.
Sandra is also not great health she has osteoarthritis and is soon due 2 knee replacements who will also need care and help around the house when recovering. They both moved a year ago into what they thought would be their forever home in a 2 bed bungalow suited for Sandra's future needs, a swap which is done via the SKDC they now urgently need to be rehouse from the SDKD or find another suitable swap asap so they can be back in their home town around the support of their family and friends. Ady can no longer drive due to the brain lesions and Sandra doesn’t  drive so them living in Thurlby is no longer suitable and Sandra is also going to struggle getting to work in Stamford in the future and her children will also struggle getting to Thurlby to help their Dad. 

We are appealing to anyone that can make a donation to help Ady and his family.  We want to make this time we have left with him as special and as comfortable as possible, he is the heart of the family and loved by many. He starts Radiotherapy very soon, this should help to shrink the brain lesions to make things a bit more comfortable for him and we are hoping we can make the most of this time with him.

We are also appealing to anyone that can help with a house swap in stamford, they are needing a 2 bed house or bungalow and their 2 bed bungalow is in Thurlby via the South Kesteven District Council.
  Please do share this far and wide to help us, we as a family would really appreciate it through this difficult time.
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    Jessica Wade
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