Help a family that wouldn't ask for a thing

Hey, My name is Kevin. My girlfriend's name is Jillian and her mother's name is Sandi. We just recently discovered that Sandi is very sick and its past the point of treatment. She was diagnosed with Stage 4 undetermined primary and was given a very short time. Jillian is not the kind of person to look for handouts or even ask for help. Even when financially it will hurt her, but doesn't matter at the time, considering. She doesn't even know I'm starting the fundraiser and I'm sure she wouldn't let me if she knew. I recently just lost my mother and i wish every day i had more time with her. I wanna be able to help Jillian and her family have a chance to spend as much time as possible with Sandi. And unfortunately Sandi lives in Georgia and we live in New Jersey. We just drove 14 hours the other night to come down here and still have to drive 14 hours back home. We're going to have to buy plane tickets to travel back and forth cause the drive here is too much to do over and over. I just wanna help a family get as much time together as they possibly can for as long as they can. I appreciate any help i can get trying to do that for them.