This is a hard post to write. I am already humbled by the love and support we have received from our loved ones. I know times are tough for everyone these days, so I'm grateful for any help from anyone. I have recently been reminded by some of my friends that I can ask for help. So here I am, asking for help.

So Sunday, as I was bringing my daughter home from urgent care, someone crashed into my car. She had gone because she tore some ligaments in her ankle. After the crash, I spent all night in a trauma unit being assessed. Nothing is broken or needing serious medical intervention. We feel super lucky to walk away from this as well as we did. One of the hardest parts is that I'm having to take time off work (my job relies heavily on my vehicle) and dealing with the stress of it all. Plus, the bills will start piling up. It doesn't look like the faulted party has super good coverage, and the car is likely totaled.

I know it's just a car, but I work hard for it. When my kid was a baby, I was a young single mother on the bus. I never imagined being able to afford a car, much less finance a new car. I know I will figure it out and get back there, but man, am I struggling to stay positive right now. It's just me, and I'm helping my 18-year-old figure out her next steps too. I felt I was holding it all together one paycheck at a time as it was. Again, I know nothing lasts forever, not even the hard times. Just picking up the pieces can be painful and complicated.

Again, any help is beyond greatly appreciated. And if you read to this point, I love you dearly for it.