Under normal circumstances my family and I are extremely private about our lives, however having a triple bypass unexpectedly has changed a lot more than that. I am an over the road truck driver and was in New Jersey when this happened. I am officially out of work for a minimum of three months and depending almost entirely on my wife's income. However she has had to miss a lot of work to be with me until surgery and to be my primary care giver afterwards. I am an extremely proud man who loves his family and feel completely useless to provide for them during this time. I have three beautiful children under 18.  With the holidays right around the corner and being without insurance when this happened stress is at an all time high. Anything any one can do to assist me is greatly appreciated.