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Hani safari's Grave Headstone

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(Update.
I everyone. I will post pictures and invoice once it's done. Thank you for all the love and generosity.I will post a picture of the invoice..... After calling Glen Oaks funeral Home and Cemetary in Oakvile on 3164 9th Line and Dundas [phone redacted]  They advised me that there is an install fee and a 1  time maitanace fee and tax... will be $3000 I have $500 saved myself.. so I unfortunately uped the campaign to 2600.
I was so happy untill they gave me this news.))

We hadn’t heard from my brother in 5 days but that wasn’t unusual, he was always busy we didn’t think much of it.

Nov 28th 2014 we received a call that my little brother
Hani Safari had passed away alone at his house, from an Accidental over dose, because of his Fentanyl patch that was prescribed to him. he had passed away 4 days before his body was discovered.  his body was decomposing.
What my sister and I saw when I walked in his house hurt us tremendously, his blood his body fluids...  I felt numb, lost, confused. 
My little sister was stronger then me. She kept me going and she did most of the cleaning. She kept it together better then me.

Hani was 32 years old when he passed away. Hani was my soul mate. I helped raise him and my sister. I grew with him I partied with him, i had plans for us to grow old together raise our kids. and now his gone. i wish I could have said goodbye.  the last time I saw him I played tough love on him. I’m so sorry bro..

 

My life turned upside down. my grieving took over me. 2 months later my wife was fed up and left me and our 4 kids. I got let go from work due to my situation.

 
Hani was the kind of guy that would take his shirt of his back if you asked for it. He would never think twice if anyone needed help.  Friends or strangers on the side of the road he always went out of his way to help

I feel embraced and shameful that I don’t have the money to pay for a simple foot plack or foot stone for his grave. I don’t know if I’ll ever forgive myself for not being able to buy him a decent tomb stone let alone asking the public for help :(

Hani’s grave is empty unmarked but I visit him every 2 days at Glen Oaks Cemetery in Oakville and clean up and leave flowers or pictures.

My brother left behind a beautiful 3-year-old son. I see him every 2 weeks and have taken him under my wings.

As shameful as I feel all i need is a little money to put a simple plack or marking.  I will take care of his son along with my own kids as one of my own. I can’t stop crying as I type this. if there is away I will pay everyone back every dime you help me with and i promise to pay it forward.

Thank you for any help or even taking time to read this.

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    Ali Safari
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    Mississauga, ON

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