My husband of 49 years had a stroke. He is paralyzed and no longer able to speak. He did everything, including bills, and he took care of me. Now, I must, as the only caregiver, take care of him. Diapers, medicine, necessities, and medical transports have quickly used all our savings. supplies for my insulin pump and heart meds for us both not covered by our insuranceWe are drowning in debt. I desperately need to get surgery on an umbilical hernia, and it seems like there is so much more I need to put here He served 40 years in the USAF(R), yet he failed to get service connected, I am praying I can do that . neurology at ucla called specialist can see him,miracle? But I have to get him there. Last trip to ER took all remain funds please help us- please please I am begging