Grandma Margaret Peters

Hi my name is Jennifer Peters

I reside in Surrey BC Canada

I'm 41 I have been my grandmother's caretaker all my adult life. I grew up in her care since I was little I grew an attachment to me we've been inseparable since.

My grandma passed away July 22nd 2025

And I'm being told by my dad since he's planning the funeral ⚱️ they want 10k for her funeral and they will take her OAS and I am in a bad position for her rent portion for August he didn't want me to stress any further so he took over the funeral process but he keeps me updated

I feel like I cannot breathe. I found a family doctor because I even had a scare with my health my blood pressure has been 207/100 the night before she died the hospital emergency only gave me two pills even though I explained I have chest pain or discomfort,shortness of breath, nausea, pain or pressure in the back, neck, jaw,arms, unusual fatigue, lightheadedness, and cold sweat and they said good luck you better find a family doctor and then dismissed me and I feel I should have stayed longer I asked that too in person but I felt like I didn't matter.

Blood pressure is high today

He said the hospital should have kept me incase I go into cardiac arrest and my body shuts down but they sent me away so idk at surrey memorial

This doctor said it's a good start I'm on medication for high blood pressure and my nerves to keep my body calm for nights

Maybe I'll d i e in this journey of mine. I've always had high blood pressure growing up.

I'm in anxiety mode. I've had people share my post but it's very rare to get any help.

Someone out there, please help me with this process in my life. My grandma was my best friend. I feel so empty I feel like such a orphan