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GAYBY is a service/platform that matches LGBT+ couples and single women with gay sperm donors.

Known gay donors. Mutual-matching.

I’m Dennis Kwan, the founder of Gayby, and this venture all came about because of my own personal journey to make a baby.

I’m 42, 6’7”, Asian and Gay, and have always dreamed of having a biological child with these genetic-lottery-winning genes but with no desire to actually put in the work required to be a full-time parent.

Fortunately I met an incredible couple, Lorna and Melissa who chose me as their sperm donor to help create their family and are excited to have me become part of this family in a “fun uncle-dad” kind of role.

Since meeting online in a Facebook message board as strangers to embarking on a yearlong journey to get pregnant and becoming great friends and soon-to-be family along the way we’ve been sharing our story with friends and acquaintances many of whom expressed that they too would be open and interested to create a child in this way.

Here’s a video chronicling our own journey which led us here:

So we created GAYBY.

If you’re a potential donor interested in meeting couples/women that you could help to create a family, sign up for our waitlist.

Registering for our waitlist as a sperm donor is free (with a suggested donation of $88.88 for good luck.)

For recipients looking to match with a donor we are currently offering a launch special of $888.88 for 6 months of personalized concierge matching service and access to our rapidly growing and diverse network of donors. (This price will ultimately increase to $888.88 per month or $8,888.88/year)

Maybe you want to gift a membership to someone you love. Maybe you would love to contribute to a beautiful cause. Any gift of $888 or more will go toward providing a pro-bono match for one lovely deserving couple/person off the waitlist.

Please consider giving as much as you can. All funds raised will go toward expanding and promoting Gayby around the world.

While our aim is to primarily assist LGBT+ donors and recipients for whom this type of service seems to be most needed and wanted, we are of course open to all.

It is our dream to grow this platform to be known and used globally by thousands or even millions of people and to normalize these types of non-traditional family structures.

Welcome to the future of family!



  • Anonymous
    • $888 
    • 10 d
  • Cassandra Herschenfeld
    • $2,000 
    • 12 d
  • Siohong tanlim
    • $88 
    • 13 d
  • Selina Zhong
    • $88 
    • 1 mo
  • Michelle Trone
    • $200 
    • 1 mo


Dennis Kwan
Los Angeles, CA

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