Funeral help for my mother Candy Patience

First off I'd like to say I hate even doing this , it's not something I would normally do. I've never been one to ask for help.
Most know my mother died yesterday June 8.. 
This was unexpected she's been in a nursing home for some years due to a stroke after heart surgery ... regardless she's been healthy and for the most part well .. I met with the funeral home today and they won't do payments , they want almost $5,000 upfront ... so I am here asking for help to anyone that can , I wanna do right by my mom and take care of this . I lost my dad 19 months ago and I'm still paying for his funeral, thankfullythat funeral home let me do payments after I putdown a decent amount ... again I hate even ask but please anyone that can do anything I would greatly appreciate it . I can't even believe she's gone... thanks to everyone who's shown me love andall the condolences...