The light of our family, and my cherished wife,  has been dimmed. On January 7, 2021, Katy Cutlip--wife, mother, daughter, friend--died of a pulmonary embolism. This was sudden and unexpected, and we're facing the expenses of fulfilling her wishes for after her death, which will include cremation and planting a living urn, as well as a church service at a time when it reasonable to do so.  Katy was a firecracker, full of love and help and hope, the kindest person with a sailor's tongue. There are dozens of we introverts who have been taken under her wing, being able to cherish her and love her and look forward to a life together. I hope to be able to pay for her expenses by January 12.