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As many of you might already know, On April 9, 2019 God called my love Efrain J. Anguiano home. He was diagnosed with stage 2 gastric (stomach) cancer in October of 2017. After a total gastrectomy a few months later then numerous rounds of chemotherapy followed by radiation he was done with treatments. 3 months later the cancer came back. Causing more damage & stronger than before. This time it caused a blockage to his esophagus & later on to his colon..
The day before his passing we had gone to see his doctor for a follow up appointment after being hospitalized for a total of 4 weeks , a week before ,where he again had another tough surgery , what we thought was a swollen foot from liquids turned out to be a blood clot in his right foot the day of his appointment after Xray tests were taken & his doctor was very concerned that it might had already traveled to his lungs, so he got admitted. After a long day of being in the hospital & with pending results I went home with our newborn babyboy, Cavani, to our almost 2 year old Mia, and my 7year old son Aidin. I didn’t hear much from him that night because he wanted to save his battery to update me with good news throughout the night, not knowing when i left Froedtert that was also going to be the last time i saw him alive. The next morning I got a phone call from his doctor telling me that his heart had stopped while trying to filter his lungs & get rid of the confirmed blood clots, CPR was performed at least 3 times before i even got to the highway, After a 50min drive that felt like an eternity I got there & was told he was resuscitated at least 7 times, he fought for his life till the very end but it wasn’t enough. “They did everything they could”.
His sister Clara and Maira were not allowed in the room while all this was happening. My amazing boyfriend died alone after a”follow up appointment” where we also got hope to beating cancer once again..
I am so devastated & heartbroken right now bc I wasn't there for him! He didn't get to see our babies one more time! He didn’t get to say goodbye to his parents nor his two other sisters Lupita & Gema. We didn't get to tell him how much We loved him..
We believe he passed away from a pulmonary embolism.
We are all so thankful for the love & support we have received. Many people have asked me on how they can assist & donate to his funeral costs & any expenses. So i decided to open a GoFundMe me page for anyone who is interested in assisting myself & his family financially in these hard times to give him the proper burial he deserves. We would greatly appreciate everyone's help & also understand most of you have been affected by his sudden loss. We know how much Jr. was loved & will be greatly missed! He will forever live in our hearts
The day before his passing we had gone to see his doctor for a follow up appointment after being hospitalized for a total of 4 weeks , a week before ,where he again had another tough surgery , what we thought was a swollen foot from liquids turned out to be a blood clot in his right foot the day of his appointment after Xray tests were taken & his doctor was very concerned that it might had already traveled to his lungs, so he got admitted. After a long day of being in the hospital & with pending results I went home with our newborn babyboy, Cavani, to our almost 2 year old Mia, and my 7year old son Aidin. I didn’t hear much from him that night because he wanted to save his battery to update me with good news throughout the night, not knowing when i left Froedtert that was also going to be the last time i saw him alive. The next morning I got a phone call from his doctor telling me that his heart had stopped while trying to filter his lungs & get rid of the confirmed blood clots, CPR was performed at least 3 times before i even got to the highway, After a 50min drive that felt like an eternity I got there & was told he was resuscitated at least 7 times, he fought for his life till the very end but it wasn’t enough. “They did everything they could”.
His sister Clara and Maira were not allowed in the room while all this was happening. My amazing boyfriend died alone after a”follow up appointment” where we also got hope to beating cancer once again..
I am so devastated & heartbroken right now bc I wasn't there for him! He didn't get to see our babies one more time! He didn’t get to say goodbye to his parents nor his two other sisters Lupita & Gema. We didn't get to tell him how much We loved him..
We believe he passed away from a pulmonary embolism.
We are all so thankful for the love & support we have received. Many people have asked me on how they can assist & donate to his funeral costs & any expenses. So i decided to open a GoFundMe me page for anyone who is interested in assisting myself & his family financially in these hard times to give him the proper burial he deserves. We would greatly appreciate everyone's help & also understand most of you have been affected by his sudden loss. We know how much Jr. was loved & will be greatly missed! He will forever live in our hearts
Organizer and beneficiary
Nidia Garduno
Organizer
Kenosha, WI
Maira Sotelo
Beneficiary