- J
Im creating this on behalf of a friend. All proceeds will be going towards the family. All words below are not my own and are that of my friend who wishes to remain anonymous at this time.
On October 2nd, 2020, my mother passed out vomiting blood profusely, after passing out at a restaurant earlier that night. I was able to resuscitate her, and she went to the local hospital. They diagnosed her with cirrhosis of the liver, a bursting of the varicose veins, and endometrial cancer. At the time, her cancer was mainly in her uterus area, with some nodes on her lungs, but not considered cancerous at the time. For most of October/November, she was pretty decent health-wise, being her same self, able to drive herself to places, etc. She was even able to start some radiation therapy (she completed 7 out of 10 sessions). But during the month of December, she got a lot worse. She complained of bad pains in her stomach/back area, usually moaning in pain and unable to sleep, and went to the hospital 2 more times for issues related to this. She went a 4th time to the hospital just before New Year's Eve, barely cognisant and not able to remember my name. The doctors have told me her cancer has spread to her pelvic bone, abdomen, and her lungs. She was given six months or less to live. She is now barely able to talk, and only for a few moments at a time.
It breaks my heart to see the person who did so much for me and fought for me as a child reduced to barely being able to eat or drink without assistance. I feel so much regret about time wasted not spending it with her, along with a plethora of other things. She is/was/will be a wonderful mother and human being, and a truly selfless person.
This has thrown me into a complete state of shock and immense depression. On top of the possibly soon loss of my mother, I have been dealing with neurological issues at the same time my mother has been going through this, and I still do not have a proper diagnosis for it. I feel numbness all over my face at times, along with being confused or having brain fog on and off, along with symptoms such as nausea/exhaustion. It's terrible to have memory issues at a time that I should be able to have final, lasting memories with my mother.
For now, I just want my mother to get to a point where I can spend quality, loving time with her. Ideally a miracle would happen, and she could start chemotherapy, but it's very unlikely at this moment in time.
The money people can give to this GoFundMe will help with medical bills for both my mother and I, funeral costs, and general quality of life for my mother in her final months. I appreciate anything people can give. Thank you so much.
On October 2nd, 2020, my mother passed out vomiting blood profusely, after passing out at a restaurant earlier that night. I was able to resuscitate her, and she went to the local hospital. They diagnosed her with cirrhosis of the liver, a bursting of the varicose veins, and endometrial cancer. At the time, her cancer was mainly in her uterus area, with some nodes on her lungs, but not considered cancerous at the time. For most of October/November, she was pretty decent health-wise, being her same self, able to drive herself to places, etc. She was even able to start some radiation therapy (she completed 7 out of 10 sessions). But during the month of December, she got a lot worse. She complained of bad pains in her stomach/back area, usually moaning in pain and unable to sleep, and went to the hospital 2 more times for issues related to this. She went a 4th time to the hospital just before New Year's Eve, barely cognisant and not able to remember my name. The doctors have told me her cancer has spread to her pelvic bone, abdomen, and her lungs. She was given six months or less to live. She is now barely able to talk, and only for a few moments at a time.
It breaks my heart to see the person who did so much for me and fought for me as a child reduced to barely being able to eat or drink without assistance. I feel so much regret about time wasted not spending it with her, along with a plethora of other things. She is/was/will be a wonderful mother and human being, and a truly selfless person.
This has thrown me into a complete state of shock and immense depression. On top of the possibly soon loss of my mother, I have been dealing with neurological issues at the same time my mother has been going through this, and I still do not have a proper diagnosis for it. I feel numbness all over my face at times, along with being confused or having brain fog on and off, along with symptoms such as nausea/exhaustion. It's terrible to have memory issues at a time that I should be able to have final, lasting memories with my mother.
For now, I just want my mother to get to a point where I can spend quality, loving time with her. Ideally a miracle would happen, and she could start chemotherapy, but it's very unlikely at this moment in time.
The money people can give to this GoFundMe will help with medical bills for both my mother and I, funeral costs, and general quality of life for my mother in her final months. I appreciate anything people can give. Thank you so much.