I’ve gone back and forth about whether to write this. Asking for help like this doesn’t come easily to me but this is something I’ve dreamed of for so long. I’m finally at a point where I’m so close but I have to admit that I can’t get there alone.

I have the opportunity to complete my surgery at the end of January with Miss Tina Rashid at Parkside in London.

This surgery, a full depth vaginoplasty, means everything to me. It’s not about trying to be something else, it means finally having the body I feel I should’ve had at birth and the chance to experience a sensuality and sexuality currently out of my reach.

The cost, including surgery, travel, recovery, and time off work, is around £25,000. I’ve saved what I can, but it’s still beyond me. So I’m opening myself up, nervously, hopefully and asking for support.

I have never approached my transition with any sense of entitlement and If you are able to donate, no matter the amount, it will mean more than I can ever express. If you can’t, simply sharing my story will help too.

Thank you for reading, for caring, and for standing with me. You’ve all helped me get this far just by being in my life.

With all my heart,

Kate Louise xx