My name is Jessi, and for the first time in my life, I’m starting to feel like me. But there’s one final, life-changing step standing between me and truly living the life I’ve fought so hard for: skin removal surgery.

I’ve battled with my weight for as long as I can remember — not from a lack of trying, but because of PCOS (a hormone disorder), which made it nearly impossible to lose weight no matter how many diets or exercise programs I followed. Then came the pandemic…and with it, a toxic, abusive relationship that pushed me even further into isolation and pain. I gained over 100 pounds during quarantine, - ballooning to 397 lbs - reaching a point where I no longer recognized myself — physically or emotionally.

In July 2022, desperate to save my life, I underwent Duodenal Switch surgery. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever made — but also the best. Since then, I’ve lost 226 pounds, shed over 40% body fat, and dropped 36 BMI points. I’ve done the work — physically, emotionally, mentally — to reclaim my health and my future.

For the first time, I can shop in the regular clothing section. I can sit in chairs without fear. I weigh less than the women in my life I used to idolize and dream of looking like one day. And yet…I still feel like I have to hide.

The loose skin left behind is a constant, painful reminder of where I was — and a barrier between me and where I want to be. It causes painful rashes and infections unless I shower constantly. I wear long sleeves, even in summer, to hide the skin that hangs from my arms. I avoid shorts and skirts because of chafing on my thighs. I can’t wear bras comfortably due to extra skin on my torso. Most clothes don’t fit properly, and I’m still covering myself up, still trying to disappear — even after everything I’ve overcome.

I’m incredibly grateful for how far I’ve come. I wouldn’t change my journey. But I need help taking this final step toward healing. I’ve been approved by a highly respected surgeon, Dr. Louis Suarez in Tijuana, Mexico, to remove the excess skin from my arms, stomach, and torso as part of a single surgery (with thighs separately later on). The cost for this first life-changing procedure is approximately $22,000 — and I can’t do it alone.

This surgery isn’t cosmetic. It’s a chance to feel comfortable in my skin for the first time in my life. It’s a chance to finally feel free.

If you’ve ever struggled with your body, felt invisible, or fought your way back from something painful — I hope my story resonates. I’m asking, from the bottom of my heart, for your support. Any donation, no matter how small, brings me closer to feeling whole. If you can’t donate, sharing this with someone who might be able to help means the world.

Thank you for seeing me — and for helping me finish what I started.

With gratitude and hope,

Jessi