
Freedom From DV and Attending CrossPurpose
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After losing my daughter Nevaeh's whole childhood to the pain of malignant narcissistic abuse, no matter what I did to get stronger for her and become the mother I never had (the Strong, Victorious DV Survivor I am today), Nevaeh herself has been telling me for the last several months that she no longer wants to be with her father and his family. They have caused enough damage to both of us, and she wants to be free of this lifelong pain; her father is abusing her (as he used to abuse me), and she wants to get out as soon as possible. I've been talking with her about CrossPurpose and how the program helped me get the job I have today. She and a Canadian friend (McKenna Darrigan) are wanting/trying to move back home to me in Denver so they can get an apartment here, go through CrossPurpose's Boot Camp Career Program as I did, and hopefully get a good job to support themselves. After being stifled for the last 18 years by the corrupt, so-called "Family Courts" in Texas (that only cares about making money off of the victims and never holding the true perpetrator and his allies accountable for their crimes against women and children), the tide has started to turn - and the sooner we can get Nevaeh out of the hellhole she has been stuck in her whole life (which I got myself out of long ago by the grace of God) so she can be herself and breathe easier, the better. I no longer get Social Security and other government benefits, as they say "I now make too much money at my job," but I am not able to raise this amount of money on my own in the short period of time we need (i.e. - Nevaeh graduates high school next month), and because my ex steals everyone's money all the time (including hers, what she makes from earning commissions on her drawings, which he then forces her to hand over to him for himself) and never gives anything back, I have a special, secret Chase Savings Account set up here (that he doesn't know about, nor have access to) to help raise/save the money in so Nevaeh and McKenna can come to Denver ASAP. One of my first goals is to formally introduce Nevaeh and McKenna to everyone at CrossPurpose when they settle in. They haven't signed up for the Career Boot Camp program yet, because we don't know when they will actually get here; I need to get Nevaeh out of Texas and McKenna needs enough funds to get a VISA to come live/work in the United States. I can pretty much help them with everything once they get here, but the first step is to get enough money together to help them move (and I will be asking the assistance of the local police when they get ready, so my ex and his family won't interfere like they always do), make sure they can get a UHaul, and be able to get Nevaeh from Texas and McKenna from Canada. As I've always told everyone all these years (and have told Nevaeh repeatedly, so now she understands that she's always had a mother who DID love her and has always wanted to be in her life), Nevaeh has been my driving force behind everything I've been doing these days, and getting her home so she can be happy again and Abuse-Free is one of those Major Goals. If anyone can help us, reuniting a loving mother and her long-lost child in the process (unjustly stolen from each other long ago) we will be eternally grateful, and I will be sure to help Nevaeh see how great CrossPurpose is and how worthwhile it is for persons like us to go through the Career programs and become part of our large family (as I am VERY happy in my career). Thanks so much for any help you can give - and may God reward you! Indeed, the love of a Mother for her children will NEVER die!
Organizer
Teresa Mary Philomena
Organizer
Denver, CO