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I'm in Eugene Oregon, my mom is in the hospital they just diagnosed her with late late stage cancer with maybe a month to live. They didn't find it until about 3 days although she's been in the hospital every couple weeks for the last few months. Her entire family lives in California including me, she's in the hospital right now but they're about to boot release her into a subpar hospice home. She was staying there before she went to the hospital this last time and I was working on getting her down to live with me. I just moved into a bigger apartment. But up until 2 days ago I thought my mom had years left to live, she was just suffering from early stage dementia. I'm completely devastated. I love my mother very much and can't even believe how badly she's deteriorated over 6 months. So I drove up here in the hopes of being able to drive her down even with the cancer, but it is just impossible she's on an IV she's in a lot of pain and needs pain medication every few hours. so I called some interstate transport places and found one that will do it as soon as I call them because it needs to be soon, for $10,66. I would like to bring my mom home so she doesn't have to die alone. Her brother and sister and her kids are all in Southern California and want to be close to my mother for her remaining months weeks or days. My grandmother also purchased a family burial plot for herself and her five children, herself and two children are already buried there, and if the Earth should come before I'm able to bring her home, we would still like her home with her family at the end. A week ago I was moving into a new apartment making arrangements and excited to have my mother finally back home and close to me. She was going to learn the violin while I learned the harmonica. I was looking forward to the next few years with my mother and being able to take care of her when she needed it like she always had for me. Then those years were taken from me without warning I'm told she may not make it through the month, and she needs to be released from the hospital immediately. Our entire family was hit by a total surprise, they are all hoping for a miracle, I am hoping 412. But God helps those who help themselves which is why I'm reaching out for help from any source . Thank you for reading to the end best wishes to you all and all of your loved ones.
Jack Family
Jack Family

