For Harper- stillborn,still loved.

I’m not good at this. 

I’m not ready to think about any of these things but it has to be done. I’ve never been good at talking about my feelings. I don’t like asking for help but sometimes it’s necessary because people do want to help.
The bill for the hospital and the funeral home are more than I expected. 
I’m having her cremated and put in a keepsake to have her close to me at all times. In a necklace.
Thank you for your support. 
Anything helps!


I keep thinking that I’m going to wake up from this nightmare. That I will wake up and you will be safe and sound, moving around and kicking me like you would. In reality, you were born on September 1st, 2018. You were born asleep at 27 weeks.
Sometimes I’m sad, upset and mad other times I don’t feel anything and I don’t know what is worse. I miss you so much. It was so hard letting you go. The hardest thing I ever had to do.
You are our little angel now.

On 9.1.18 they found no heartbeat on Harper. My time with her was over and my world fell apart.

We love you Harper Rae!
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Elvira Diaz 
Santa Barbara, CA
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